The story of how you proposed will be told to friends and strangers
for the rest of your lives (no pressure!). Why not put your own spin on
one of these romantic proposal ideas:
Public Marriage Proposal Ideas
Take
out a full-page ad in a newspaper, and then pick the perfect spot to
have a relaxing morning of catching up on current events. Another twist
on this idea is to call into a radio station and then make sure your
fiancé-to-be is listening when your proposal is on the air.
Send
your unsuspecting fiancé-to-be on a treasure hunt that ends with your
proposal. Start with a clue at home (a handwritten note or text message)
that leads to a tour of your favorite spots all over town.
Ask
the divers at an aquarium to put on a proposal show inside their biggest
fish tank. Give them a (waterproof) sign that says, "Will you marry
me?" to hold up against the glass and then position yourselves for what
will, at first, seem like feeding time.
Destination Marriage Proposal Ideas
Plan a romantic destination getaway for two. When you're on the plane,
use the loudspeaker system (of course, run your plan by the flight
attendants first) and propose at 35,000 feet.
Rent a Vespa,
scooter or bikes to tour the city and invite your soon-to-be fiancé for a
ride, but remind him or her to be safe and wear a helmet. Hand over the
helmet (with the ring box already in it), and then you can zip around
town to celebrate.
After a long day of sightseeing, have a drink
in the hotel bar. When it's time to go, have roses, candles and
champagne all set up in your hotel room—everything for a perfect
surprise proposal.
Homemade Marriage Proposal Ideas
Gather a bunch of your friends and family for a party and have everyone
put on a T-shirt or carry balloons filled with helium (otherwise they
won't float) bearing one of the letters in the phrase, "Will you marry
me?" Then during the party suggest a group picture to reveal the
message.
Spell your proposal out in glow-in-the-dark star stickers
on your ceiling. Get into bed, turn the lights off and wait for the
gasp. Refrigerator magnet letters work too!
Create makeshift
letters that spell out, "Will you marry me?" using anything from colored
duct tape (against a wall or a piece of poster board) to scrapbooking
materials. Surprise your partner with your creation at work, home or the
park. (Not crafty? Hire a graffiti artist to write out an artistic
marriage proposal in huge letters!)
At-Home Marriage Proposals
Fill a favorite room in your home with photo memories from your
relationship; you can hang them from balloons or cover the walls with
them for a jaw-dropping surprise.
Slip the ring on while your
soon-to-be fiancé is sleeping and then do a romantic morning wake-up
call with champagne and strawberries.
Have a custom jigsaw puzzle
made with your picture and the words "Marry me?" On a rainy day, suggest
this activity, and when you've finished enough that you can clearly see
the photo and read the words, it's time to propose! (Hint: This works
well with Scrabble too.)
Techie Proposals
Add a custom proposal "song" to his or her go-to playlist on iTunes, or record an unexpected proposal podcast.
Have
a friend take photos of you with posters that say, "will," "you,"
"marry" and "me?" Then make plans to meet up in a special spot, and
before you arrive, text the photos in order. When the last message goes
through, show up and get down on one knee.
Create a web page
declaring your love and proposal, and leave a clue with the web address
written on it—don't say a word. After the proposal, announce the good
news by sending the link to family and friends.
Best Foodie Marriage Proposal Ideas
Put together a gift basket of yummy treats–like dark chocolate, coffee
or fresh fruit—and hide the ring among the presents (in its box, so it
doesn't get lost in the goodies).
Ask the pastry chef to write, "Will you marry me?" in chocolate sauce around the rim of a dessert plate.
Ask
a baker to make a custom cake with the proposal written in frosting.
Then, have the cake displayed in the storefront and take your partner
window-shopping. Bring the cake home to share and celebrate afterward!
At-Work Marriage Proposal Ideas
Sneak into your soon-to-be fiancé’s office or classroom before they
arrive in the morning and write your proposal on their desk or
blackboard. Stay hidden from sight until they show up.
Before your
partner leaves for work, offer to heat up their car and scrape the ice
and snow off their windows. Then scratch your proposal into the ice.
With
the help of your soon-to-be fiancé’s coworkers, schedule a last-minute
meeting toward the end of the day. Then whisk them away to a romantic
spot to propose.
Proposals Caught on Camera
Hire a photographer to capture your proposal, but tell your partner
you've won a romantic couple's photo shoot. Get dressed up and then
propose mid-shoot, and follow it up with a romantic engagement shoot.
Pick
the perfect spot to propose and have a photographer hide somewhere
discreet. After your proposal, your photographer can snap some posed
photos too.
Tell your fiancé-to-be that you've been selected for a
couple's "casting call" at a studio, and then propose in front of the
cameras.
Playful Marriage Proposal Ideas
Pull
off a tiny fake out by asking for your partner's ring size in obvious
ways (bringing home a ring chart is one). When they accuse you of
ruining the surprise that you're shopping for a ring, say, "Okay, try
this one instead."
Cut out the bottom of a huge refrigerator box,
wrap it with pretty paper and ribbon, and attach a card that says,
"What's inside the box is a gift to last a lifetime." Then, "deliver"
yourself to your soon-to-be fiancé’s doorstep.
Reenact the scene
of their favorite romantic movie. If it's Pretty Woman, go for the
ending of the movie: Rent a white limo and climb through the sunroof
with flowers in hand to proclaim your love as you arrive at her place.
Fall & Winter Marriage Proposal Ideas
During
the holiday season, use outdoor string lights to write out, "Will you
marry me?" on the front of your house, apartment or lawn. Station your
friends and family secretly inside and come up with an excuse to linger
out front. Then have someone flip the switch to reveal the message.
Build
a scene of a snowman proposing, and then tell your soon-to-be-fiancé to
look outside. When they see the snowman, get down on one knee.
Write, "Will you marry me?" on the underside of a kite and take flight on a breezy afternoon.
Spring & Summer Marriage Proposal Ideas
Have a friend or family member set up a picnic—complete with wine and
cheese, of course—for you in a park. Then come up with an excuse for
taking a hike where you'll stumble upon this surprise proposal picnic.
Pick
a spot for some summer stargazing (it's even more perfect if there's a
meteor shower or lunar eclipse expected) and propose under the night
sky.
On the night before a beach day you've planned, write a love
poem on a piece of parchment paper, roll it into an antique bottle with a
cork and bury it in a well-marked spot in the sand near your towels. Be
sure you "find" the bottle as you dig together—and be ready with the
ring.
Marriage Proposal Ideas with Surprise Parties
On your partner's birthday, plan a "surprise party," and then pretend
to ruin the surprise by having him or her get there early. The real
shock will be when you propose and all of your friends and family show
up afterward to celebrate.
Plan a party filled with friends and
family at a bar near where you'll propose, and then suggest a
celebratory drink after your partner says "yes."
Have your
proposal in a park, with friends and family a safe distance away. Once
you've proposed, have everyone show up for an impromptu celebration.
Holiday Marriage Proposal Ideas
Surprise
your fiancé with a pet you've always wanted to get together (bunny,
kitten, puppy) under the Christmas tree and tie the ring around its
neck. Or substitute a stuffed animal—still cute, but less maintenance!
Propose
during your local fireworks show on the Fourth of July. Work with a
professional to set up a private message in sparklers that spells out
"Marry me?"
Throw a Halloween jack-o'-lantern carving contest for
friends and family where everyone reveals their designs. Unveil your
pumpkin carved with your proposal last.